Relationship Counselling

“There is nothing I can do right for my spouse. I walk on egg shells all the time. We constantly argue… And I wonder what has happened to that wonderful person I married? Where is that love and respect we promised to each other? Sometimes I wish I can go somewhere else after work. I do love my partner and do not want to go through the loss or a painful divorce. But how can one be happy when things have changed?”

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At the beginning it was perfect. You were inseparable. The future looked fantastic and your love was in every cell of your bodies. There were flowers and romantic days out. There were great nights and affectionate days. There was fun and beautiful smiles. . .

And before you know – it is all gone!

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So many questions:

• What happened?

• Why your loved one has changed so much?

• Why you are not able to pass a day without arguing?

• Why he appears to be angry all the time?

• Why is she so snappy and scruffy?

• Is there someone else?

• Why he keeps walking away in a tantrum like a child?

• Why she talks too much?

• Where has the passion gone?

• Where is he now?

• Will she ever stop that nagging?

• Why didn’t he call?

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Every relationship has its moments. But the reasons are so variable it is hard sometimes to identify. The problem could be more serious then you think and you are at breaking point. Or it could be just a simple misunderstanding.

 

But the most common issue in any case is a lack of communication. You just cannot talk any more. You do not feel like talking and she/he never shuts up. Or you are desperate to reach out but your partner does not even listen. Or you have a lot to say but you are just afraid to cause another argument. Some people would like to talk but just cannot find the right words.

That can be fixed for both of you together or for just yourself.